Thursday, August 4, 2016

Feeling dried up, worn out, deadened? We have hope.

"Therefore prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: My people, I am going to open your graves and bring you up from them; I will bring you back to the land of Israel. Then you, my people, will know that I am the Lord, when I open your graves and bring you up from them. I will put my Spirit in you and you will live, and I will settle you in your own land. Then you will know that I the Lord have spoken, and I have done it, declares the Lord.’”
Ezekiel 37:12-14, NIV


The Rose of Jericho, the Resurrection Fern, has an amazing capacity for survival. In times of drought, it dries out and shrivels up, looking dead, but hides a surprising secret. When given a long slow drink, that dead-looking fern resurrects and becomes lush and green and full of life again. If you’re a special needs parent, I bet you’ve got that same capacity for survival. We go through periods that are so hard, so exhausting, physically and emotionally taxing, that we feel pretty dead and dried up inside. I have days when I feel that way, don’t you? Worn out until there really isn’t much left. Just like that fern can live again, there is hope for you, and there is hope for me, too!

There is a pretty special prophet named Ezekiel who we read about in the Old Testament. I love the story of Ezekiel because he never intended to become a prophet. Ezekiel trained his entire life to be a priest. A priest had social standing, was respected, and admired. It was an honor to be a priest! But just as he was about to step into his role as priest and fulfill his duties, God called him to something entirely different – to be a prophet. Nobody really likes a prophet. They were looked down upon, disliked, and viewed with suspicion. But God used prophets to bring his stubborn people back to Him, so a prophet’s job was just as important as a priest’s. Few people desire to be a special needs parent, it’s something that often is thrust upon us, and leaves us feeling kind of isolated and at odds with the world, but it’s just as important and rewarding, isn’t it?

Well, God’s people seemed a lot like that dried up old fern – they were hurting, feeling alone, abandoned because they had rejected God. Have you ever felt alone and hurting? Isolated? It was Ezekiel’s job to bring them back to God. And God gave him an incredible vision, the Valley of the Dry Bones in Ezekiel 37:1-14.

In the passage, God takes Ezekiel to this valley of bones, old, dead bones. Because that’s how Israel felt, like wasted old bones. And Ezekiel was probably pretty horrified by those bones – because a priest would never touch a dead body! But God told Ezekiel to speak to the bones, and he obeyed. And the bones grew flesh, and became bodies. And God told Ezekiel to speak to those bones again, and he obeyed. And those bones were given the breath of life and became a vast army of living breathing people. This vision sounds more like something from the Walking Dead rather than a Bible story, so what does that mean for us?

It means that God sees us and hears us when we feel like we are dried up, wasting away, cut off, and abandoned. And it means that God wants to breathe new life in us! He wants to restore our weary souls, energize our lifeless bodies, and help us stand to our feet, ready to face another day. Just like that Resurrection Fern comes back to life with just a bit of water, God wants to breathe new life into our hurting, dead places.

Maybe you never planned on being a special needs parent, but now, somehow, you are. And it’s hard, and it can be isolating. It’s exhausting. And just as you are breathing life and love into your special needs child or children, God wants to breathe life and love into you. Breathe in, my friend, breathe in God’s Spirit and let God give you new life.


Dear God,

We cry out to You with our hurts, our loneliness, our isolation. 
We cry out to You in our deadness, our dryness, our weariness. 

We give you the dry places, 
the hidden places, 
the hurting places 
so You can resurrect them. 

Fill us, Lord, with Your Breath,
 fill us with Your Spirit, 
and give us strength to stand, 
strength to fight, and 
strength to thrive. 

Give us Your infinite love
 so we have love to give to those around us.

In the name of Jesus,

Amen 

-Amanda Furbeck




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4 comments:

  1. Your post is spot on with how I feel. Single mom to two special need kids. Was left homeless by ex husband and now living with my parents.

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    1. I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Please hear my heart that God sees you, He hears you, He hurts with you, and there is hope for a future for you and your children. Praying for you and your family.

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  2. Awesome post. Perfectly stated. Thank you for the encouragement. I needed it. I am a caregiver for my daughter and husband. My career is on hold and money is tight. My body and mind are weary. This blog has been such a blessing to me since I have been following. God bless you.

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    1. Denie, Thank you for your kind words! It's ok to get tired and worn out, we all do. Try to find your rest, somehow, and please don't ever give up hope! Today's post was very encouraging to me, about being purposed and re-purposed. Hope you get a chance to read it. God hears you.

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